Ok I'm sick of feeling bad about this. Tact mightn't be my strong point but honesty is. If I asked my husband a question and goaded him for an answer, ie does my bum look too big in a certain dress, I'd expect to hear what he really thought rather than him telling me what he thought I might want to hear. I wouldn't ask otherwise. I'm sorry my honesty has cost PRE a valuable member, an outstanding moderator and one of our Tiger family. Shattered really. I don't know if you got my messages Disco. You're welcome back with open arms as a mod on PRE if/whenever you'd like to join us. We've all got an exiting future to share. :hearton