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Anthony Mundine

Brodders17

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LeeToRainesToRoach said:
An estimate. Aborigines were killed as civilisation expanded. It can never be "right" through today's lens, but it was right at the time.

There was no Jewish soccer team playing football at Olympiastadion under Hitler, but an Aboriginal cricket team played on the MCG in front of 8000 paying customers in 1868 after touring England. So many things are not consistent with a policy of genocide, but you can convince yourself by focusing on a narrow band of "truth".

Incidentally the notorious Queensland Native Police mentioned in the document as responsible for 24,000 deaths was comprised of Aborigines.

pretty sure that aboriginal team had to be smuggled out of Australia, as at that time they werent given rights as citizens so couldnt get a passport, but carry on.
 

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LeeToRainesToRoach said:
Any boxing experts on PRE? Does Mundine rank in the top ten Australian fighters? Why or why not?
In my time, I'd have only Kostya Tszyu, Jeff Fenech, and maybe Jeff Harding and Lester Ellis ahead of him. If he'd been a boxer from the start he'd be right up there with the first two. A prime Mundine would have wiped the floor with Jeff Horn.

All time, you'd have to add Lionel Rose, Johnny Famechon, Les Darcy, Daniel Geale and Vic Darchinyan into your top 10. Dave Sands, Tony Mundine, Michael Katsidis, Rocky Mattioli and Barry Michael around the mark.
 

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Brodders17 said:
pretty sure that aboriginal team had to be smuggled out of Australia, as at that time they werent given rights as citizens so couldnt get a passport, but carry on.

Doubt passports were around given Australia wasn't yet a country. Concerns were raised by something called the Board for Protection of Aborigines about the English weather being deleterious to their health after four players had died during a tour of NSW. Certainly there was an element of entrepreneurism about the tour which created some controversy. Either of those things might've been the reason for the smuggling of players (to Sydney in order to catch a ship, not to England). Happy to stand corrected.

MCG match was actually held on Boxing Day 1866, with the Aboriginal team the clear crowd favourite. They were captained by Tom Wills, of Australian football fame, whose father had been clubbed to death by Aborigines five years earlier.
 

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spook said:
In my time, I'd have only Kostya Tszyu, Jeff Fenech, and maybe Jeff Harding and Lester Ellis ahead of him. If he'd been a boxer from the start he'd be right up there with the first two. A prime Mundine would have wiped the floor with Jeff Horn.

All time, you'd have to add Lionel Rose, Johnny Famechon, Les Darcy, Daniel Geale and Vic Darchinyan into your top 10. Dave Sands, Tony Mundine, Michael Katsidis, Rocky Mattioli and Barry Michael around the mark.

Thanks for this. Have had a look, there are a few lists around with mostly the same names as yours, with only the order changing. While his talent is acknowledged, A.Mundine is often mentioned as a contender for the lower end of the ten before ultimately being left out. Jon Anderson of the HS definitely isn't a fan!
 

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spook said:
In my time, I'd have only Kostya Tszyu, Jeff Fenech, and maybe Jeff Harding and Lester Ellis ahead of him. If he'd been a boxer from the start he'd be right up there with the first two. A prime Mundine would have wiped the floor with Jeff Horn.

All time, you'd have to add Lionel Rose, Johnny Famechon, Les Darcy, Daniel Geale and Vic Darchinyan into your top 10. Dave Sands, Tony Mundine, Michael Katsidis, Rocky Mattioli and Barry Michael around the mark.

A good list there, Hector Thompson was pretty good too, he went 8 rounds with the great Roberto Duran in a world title bout when Duran was in his prime.
 

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spook said:
In my time, I'd have only Kostya Tszyu, Jeff Fenech, and maybe Jeff Harding and Lester Ellis ahead of him. If he'd been a boxer from the start he'd be right up there with the first two. A prime Mundine would have wiped the floor with Jeff Horn.

All time, you'd have to add Lionel Rose, Johnny Famechon, Les Darcy, Daniel Geale and Vic Darchinyan into your top 10. Dave Sands, Tony Mundine, Michael Katsidis, Rocky Mattioli and Barry Michael around the mark.

The problem with mundine , in his prime he didnt , or his management didnt , go after the best , they were earning big bucks fighting lower ranked fighters on foxtel pay per view , and cashed in .

At super middleweight( that is where he was at his best) , around and after he beat green , he was ranked top 3 in the world for some time , the great Calzaghe was number 1 , never fought him , when he started messing around moving down weight divisions was the beginning of the decline ,

I actually rate mundine ( in his prime ) equal or better than Geale , but geale took his opportunities ,fought the best , got shown up a bit when he did , but retires with a better resume .
 
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LeeToRainesToRoach said:
What if I told you I'd read it? It's an exercise in wordplay.

Yeah, the authors anticipated that one

Third, the hypothesis that concentration on ‘unmitigated gloom’ overwhelms the reality that there has been more good than bad in Australian race relations.101

LeeToRainesToRoach said:
An estimate. Aborigines were killed as civilisation expanded. It can never be "right" through today's lens, but it was right at the time.

you mustn't have got to this bit?

The record of Queensland (and of Australia more broadly) is disappointing, if not embarrassing, in its insufficiency. This is especially so having regard to other national governments that have taken measures to recognise genocide or mass killings and other atrocities committed against particular populations.
In South Africa, atrocities committed from 1960 during the apartheid regime have been addressed to some extent, and an accurate history written, through the Truth and Reconciliation Commission.108 Similarly, in New Zealand, ‘[t]he Crown has apologised for its failure “to act towards Ngai Tahu reasonably and with the utmost good faith”’,109 while Germany has made efforts at reconciliation since the Holocaust (including the establishment of national monuments and museums) ‘to remember to learn from their history’.110 Significantly, the Netherlands recently apologised to Indonesia for government-authorised mass killings that took place in 1947 under Dutch colonial occupation.111 Compensation for victims’ families has also been proposed.112 In April 2014, despite falling short of using the term ‘genocide’, Turkish Prime Minister Recep Tayipp Erdogan expressed his condolences for the mass killings of the Armenian population in 1915 under the Ottoman rule.113


Dont pretend its about boxing. Mundine deliberately made himself inextricably entwined with race dialogue.

besides, I sanctioned Snake in the heavyweight division, and by implication, you blokes featherweights.
 

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LeeToRainesToRoach said:
Yeah, this country gave him the opportunity to achieve. Yeah, he got off his arse and did it himself. As everyone else has the opportunity to do. If some elect not to, it ain't anyone else's fault. Nobody's holding anyone back.

Not everyone has the same opportunity, and to argue so is completely ignorant. Just because someone does not "achieve" (what is the measure here) doesn't mean they haven't had a go.

There's plenty holding lots back.
 

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kiwitiger said:
The problem with mundine , in his prime he didnt , or his management didnt , go after the best , they were earning big bucks fighting lower ranked fighters on foxtel pay per view , and cashed in .

At super middleweight( that is where he was at his best) , around and after he beat green , he was ranked top 3 in the world for some time , the great Calzaghe was number 1 , never fought him , when he started messing around moving down weight divisions was the beginning of the decline ,

I actually rate mundine ( in his prime ) equal or better than Geale , but geale took his opportunities ,fought the best , got shown up a bit when he did , but retires with a better resume .

I'm probably in this camp too, he did appear to avoid the best (other than Ottke).
 

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kiwitiger said:
The problem with mundine , in his prime he didnt , or his management didnt , go after the best , they were earning big bucks fighting lower ranked fighters on foxtel pay per view , and cashed in .

At super middleweight( that is where he was at his best) , around and after he beat green , he was ranked top 3 in the world for some time , the great Calzaghe was number 1 , never fought him , when he started messing around moving down weight divisions was the beginning of the decline ,

I actually rate mundine ( in his prime ) equal or better than Geale , but geale took his opportunities ,fought the best , got shown up a bit when he did , but retires with a better resume .
He did fight Ottke in just his 10th pro fight, and came closer than anyone to beating him. I agree he made some easy money against lesser fighters, but I alluded to why earlier - he had a lot of people to look after. I think his 9/11 comments limited his American opportunities as well.
 

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Mundine did very well against Ottke, but got put to sleep by Ottke who only won 6 fights inside the distance out of 34 undefeated fights. Mundine was like his dad, good boxers but they couldn't take a shot.
 

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kiwitiger said:
I actually rate mundine ( in his prime ) equal or better than Geale , but geale took his opportunities ,fought the best , got shown up a bit when he did , but retires with a better resume .
Being Tasmanian and a fellow Launcestonian born lad, I was a big fan of Geale. A really good friend of mine taught him in Primary School and my dad played footy with his father. A really nice, likable bloke. People often criticised him as not being an overly exciting fighter, due to not really having that big sledgehammer knockout punch as part of his arsenal. But particularly when I saw him fight live, gee wizz he was classy. Technically very sound and his ability to seamlessly switch between orthodox and southpaw made him a very awkward opponent.

Geale was definitely world class in his prime and would beat the vast majority of opponents put up against him. But just wasn't in the same class as the absolute cream of the crop. Came up against Golovkin when Golovkin was perhaps the best pound for pound boxer in the world, throwing sledgehammers at him. Geale did get through Golovkin's guard once or twice and hit him pretty flush, only for Golovkin to hit back like a freight train in near immediate succession. That was probably the beginning of the end for Geale. He'd climbed to about as far as he was going to go in the sport and his days were numbered from that point onward. But hey, the bloke got the absolute best out of his ability. Can't criticise him for that.

I reckon if Mundine had come up against Golovkin at that same time, it would have been a pretty similar result to Geale - an early KO or TKO loss. Golovkin at his prime, probably one of my favourite all time to watch. A very scary proposition.
 

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Agree with both the last two posts. If Mundine had a chin like Jeff Harding's he'd be an all time great.

Ottke might not have knocked out many opponents, but he clearly could, and going into R10 against Choc would have known he was behind.
 

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easy said:
Yeah, the authors anticipated that one

Third, the hypothesis that concentration on ‘unmitigated gloom’ overwhelms the reality that there has been more good than bad in Australian race relations.101

you mustn't have got to this bit?

The record of Queensland (and of Australia more broadly) is disappointing, if not embarrassing, in its insufficiency. This is especially so having regard to other national governments that have taken measures to recognise genocide or mass killings and other atrocities committed against particular populations.
In South Africa, atrocities committed from 1960 during the apartheid regime have been addressed to some extent, and an accurate history written, through the Truth and Reconciliation Commission.108 Similarly, in New Zealand, ‘[t]he Crown has apologised for its failure “to act towards Ngai Tahu reasonably and with the utmost good faith”’,109 while Germany has made efforts at reconciliation since the Holocaust (including the establishment of national monuments and museums) ‘to remember to learn from their history’.110 Significantly, the Netherlands recently apologised to Indonesia for government-authorised mass killings that took place in 1947 under Dutch colonial occupation.111 Compensation for victims’ families has also been proposed.112 In April 2014, despite falling short of using the term ‘genocide’, Turkish Prime Minister Recep Tayipp Erdogan expressed his condolences for the mass killings of the Armenian population in 1915 under the Ottoman rule.113


Dont pretend its about boxing. Mundine deliberately made himself inextricably entwined with race dialogue.

besides, I sanctioned Snake in the heavyweight division, and by implication, you blokes featherweights.

Mundine's ramblings about the anthem being a song for whites border on incoherent.

Every nation's circumstances are different. For years, activists (of whom Mundine's mother is one, that's where he gets it from) pushed for the government to say sorry. It was done and it didn't changed a thing. MD Jazz says they're being held back; the only thing holding them back is their obsession with the symbolic over the practical. Which is why I donate to the AIEF every year - to help those who are having a go.

How about you cease baiting me and start a thread in the appropriate forum.
 
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LeeToRainesToRoach said:
How about you cease baiting me and start a thread in the appropriate forum.

I would take it onto the racial tolerance thread, your safe place to vilify black fellas, but youve almost single handedly turned into the religious vilification thread.

i suppose it is a bit of respite for the black fellas?

I thought about starting an appropriate new thread, but id have to call it

'The place for the intellectually flimsy and embarassingly wrong'

But that would be a bit exclusive.

I think its your wifes job to drag you out of dinner parties?

Not mine.
 

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LeeToRainesToRoach said:
Mundine's ramblings about the anthem being a song for whites border on incoherent.

Every nation's circumstances are different. For years, activists (of whom Mundine's mother is one, that's where he gets it from) pushed for the government to say sorry. It was done and it didn't changed a thing. MD Jazz says they're being held back; the only thing holding them back is their obsession with the symbolic over the practical. Which is why I donate to the AIEF every year - to help those who are having a go.

How about you cease baiting me and start a thread in the appropriate forum.

If a new thread had to be started every time someone wanted to call you out on bigotry, racism, or ignorance, PRE would be a nested infinity of race threads.
 
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Coburgtiger said:
If a new thread had to be started every time someone wanted to call you out on bigotry, racism, or ignorance, PRE would be a nested infinity of race threads.

Is it OK if I use

'nested infinity'

liberally over the next few month CT?

I really like it on a few levels.
 

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Coburgtiger said:
If a new thread had to be started every time someone wanted to call you out on bigotry, racism, or ignorance, PRE would be a nested infinity of race threads.

Think I'll start a thread titled 'L2R2R, you bigoted, racist, ignorant climate-denying bastard' where you lot can pour all your invective.
 

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The author of this piece is a councilor in Alice Springs and running for Federal Parliament. She takes quite a different worldview than the conventional victim narrative that the left of the political spectrum expects a good aboriginal should. I suspect her and Anthony Mundine wouldn't last 5mins in conversation, as the intellectual depth of her arguments would go straight over his head.

https://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/inquirer/a-culture-left-behind/news-story/698fe2b0d4a3de010ce2204381f25de7?fbclid=IwAR1wWCUrY-Or6H-uiepnfcpBv6JVrDendSvSAUYKxotIgEjx31UV8HwuNGo

Like most traditional cultures around the world, Warlpiri culture is deeply patriarchal; men are ­superior to women and more privileged, and the collective quashes the rights of the individual. These principles, thousands of years old, come together to oppress women now. If I misbehaved as a young girl, some well-intentioned family member might threaten me with forced marriage to a much older “promised husband”. I would obey out of terror.

Aboriginal children are rarely punished physically but are controlled psychologically. I recall when I was a little girl my female kin playing cards at Yuendumu. A Japangardi, one of my potential husbands, walked past. The women pretended he was coming to take me away. They teased me and huddled around, pretending to protect me from his clutches. He played along, pretending to grab for me. I was terrified. Everyone burst into laughter. Japangardi signalled it was all a joke and ­handed me a $20 note to compensate for the terror he caused me.

Girls are trained to be submissive from birth and their fear is laughed at. My mother was ­expected to join her middle-aged promised husband as his second wife at 13. She would have gone to her big sister’s household as her co-wife. Mum rebelled. Her father and promised husband relented and told her she could ­finish school first. They were good and thoughtful men who knew the law but also knew when not to enforce it and that the world was changing. Others of my ­mother’s age weren’t so lucky and were beaten senseless for daring to rebel.

My parents were determined I would be able to choose my husband. There are still some not granted that right. In customary law, a man is entitled to have sex with his promised wife without her consent. This has been used in court to defend men who had violently and sexually assaulted their teenaged promised wives. In 2002 a 50-year-old Aboriginal man faced court over the abduction and rape of his 15-year-old promised wife. He had already killed one wife. Despite this, his new wife’s family had promised her to him. She was held against her will at his outstation and repeatedly raped. When she attempted to leave with relatives, he fired his shotgun to scare them off. His lawyers argued he was acting within the parameters of his law and fulfilling obligations to the victim’s family.

This was true. The initial charge of rape was reduced. He ­received 24 hours’ imprisonment for unlawful intercourse with a minor and 14 days’ imprisonment for the firearm offences. When the details were published in a national paper there was outrage and a successful appeal.

I know of many other cases like that: stories of rape, domestic violence and murder; stories belonging to women in my family and many other Aboriginal families. Stories that never reach the ears of the wider public. My close family regularly contributes to the hideous statistics relating to family ­violence. My Aboriginal sisters, aunts, mothers, nieces and daughters live this crisis every day. There is not a woman in my family who has not experienced some kind of physical or sexual abuse at some time in her life. And none of the perpetrators were white. One of my aunts had her childhood violently stolen from her at the age of 14. Her promised husband, a much older man, held her captive. She was bound with rope “like a kangaroo”, as it was described to me, and repeatedly raped. No one reported the incident. Everyone went about their lives as if nothing had happened. My aunt — one of the most loving, caring and, as I’ve come to learn, resilient women I know — lived on in silence. She lost the ability to bear children. She was left to deal with her scarred womb and tormented ­psyche while her perpetrator lived on to die as an elder and law man, revered by both the Aboriginal and the wider community.

I was told of another relative who had also been promised to a much older man who, again, had been convicted of killing his first wife. She was terrified she’d suffer the same fate. Her female relatives tried to protect her. I was told her promised husband and other male relatives took her out bush with the connivance of her own father who had also caused the death of his wife. No one has seen her since. That was more than 30 years ago when I was a baby. No complaint was made to the police. These are the kinds of women’s stories I’ve grown up with, told to me in whispers by aunts, grandmothers, mothers. They were also warnings of what can happen when a girl breaks the law.

As an Aboriginal woman I have grown up knowing never to travel on certain roads during “business” time for fear of accidentally coming across a men’s ceremonial party. Like all Aboriginal women, I am at risk of being killed as punishment for making such a simple mistake. This was, and still is, the rule for Aboriginal women in central Australia.

In January 2009 a police car drove on to a ceremonial ground in a remote community. They were pursuing a man who had assaulted his wife. There was a female police officer in the car. That evening the ABC news reported that white police had shown no respect for Aboriginal law. The fact they were pursuing a man who had perpetrated violence against his wife wasn’t mentioned.

Interviewed for the evening news, the late Mr Bookie, former chairman of the Central Land Council, said: “It’s against our law for people like that, breaking the law, they shouldn’t be there. Aboriginal ladies, they’re not allowed to go anywhere near that. If they had been caught — a woman, Aboriginal lady, got caught — she would be killed. Simple as that!” He knew the law and he told the truth.

There was great anger in June this year when Victoria Police ­issued a statement cautioning women to have “situational awareness” and be “mindful of their surroundings” after the terrible rape and murder of a young Melbourne woman in a Carlton park at night. Aboriginal women in remote Australia must be acutely aware of their situation and surroundings all the time during Aboriginal men’s ceremony. They are taught this from birth. This is the way it is and has always been.

A few years ago I was contacted by a female family member who told me that because of feuding ­between her family and her in-laws she was wrongly accused of insulting a man in a culturally sensitive way relating to sacred men’s business. As a result she and her daughter were told they had to strip naked publicly in their community to be humiliated. Women know insulting a man with reference to men’s sacred ceremony can result in severe punishment. An accusation is usually believed and supported by the accuser’s ­female kin. Denial is useless.

A son-in-law can do whatever he likes and his mother-in-law will blame her daughter. In traditional communities in the Northern Territory, the patriarchal and kin-based society is so deeply embedded it’s common for female relatives of even violent offenders to support them against the victim. The obligation to male kin is so strong it can be crippling.

Premature death and life-threatening illness are blamed on sorcery. Misfortune falling on a family can be blamed on the misbehaviour of women who have ­attracted the attention of sor­cerers. They may be blamed for the death of their children or husbands. Mothers and widows in mourning are sometimes badly beaten after attracting blame. They usually accept punishment because they share the belief system that imposes the penalty. As long as the belief that women can be blamed for the bad behaviour of men, or for accidents and illness, exists in the hearts and minds of Aboriginal people, we will never progress in the fight against physical and sexual violence against women. It is heartbreaking but true.

Ironically, in my experience many of those most horrified by the idea of Aboriginal people questioning the old ways or adapting to the new are people who fully embrace modernity themselves. They are often well-educated and em­ployed, fluent and articulate in ­English. They live safely in suburbs, have access to the media and the world’s best health services. They don’t die young and they stay out of prison. They have their own culture, don’t live by our customary law, perhaps don’t know what it is. To me, it’s never clear what it is they’re so keen for us to hold on to. Or why we should.

In a small-scale society without prisons and without ­material wealth, incarceration or fining weren’t available as penalties for law-breaking. Physical punishments such as wounding by spear, beatings or death were the only ones available. Once the punishment had been carried out, conflict could be resolved and everyone could carry on with life. With no defence services or police, everybody, male and female, was trained to fight to defend themselves and their families when called upon. Communities haven’t fully shed these ancient practices.

But they don’t work in a complex, modern society, especially one suffering from high levels of ­alcohol and drug abuse; a world where we have all of these old traditions plus internet connection to the world, pornography and poker machines — new things that can kill, none of which existed when our culture and laws were formed.

This is the point at which traditional culture and the modern world collide to tear each other apart. My peaceful childhood days in the bush were a stark contrast to town, where members of my family lived in town camps. There, ­alcohol-fuelled violence took a stranglehold on their lives. I watched as my uncles, whom I loved dearly — men who loved their families — became addicted to grog because they no longer knew where they stood in society. I’ve witnessed alcohol-fuelled rage from men and women towards each other and inflicted on themselves. The principles of traditional and modern economies also clash.

Traditionally we couldn’t preserve or transport food in a harsh climate. Food had to be consumed immediately and shared with those present; and it could be ­demanded. That was the only way we could survive. But the only things my ancestors possessed that could be shared were food, water and firewood. The principle of demand-share cannot coexist with money, with the need to save, invest and budget. It cannot coexist with addiction. Now, in the cash economy, demand-share and immediate consumption applied to money, clothing, vehicles and houses cause poverty. You can’t say no to kin. They have unrestricted access to your income and all of your assets under the old rules. Some kin will be addicted to alcohol, drugs and gambling.

The addicted are allowed, under the rules of traditional culture, to demand their kin fund their addiction. It is the single biggest barrier to beneficial participation in the modern economy. If you are obliged to give, with no questions asked, you can’t budget, you can’t save, you can’t invest. It strips away your incentive to work. I have had to live with this and cope with it all of my life. Sharing reinforces kin relationships and the status of the sharer.

Men have higher status than women and are less obliged than women to share. This system further subjugates women. To avoid the pain of saying no, my mother insists her white husband won’t let her share. My father is happy to take on this role and use the “male privilege” given him by his wife’s culture to protect his ­Aboriginal loved ones from poverty.

These problematic attitudes and practices I’ve described did not arrive on the Australian continent with white people in 1788. They are millennia old and fundamentally rooted in a deeply patriarchal culture.

James Massing is a senior minister in the Sarawak state government in Malaysia. His people are the indigenous Iban. His great-grandfather was a headhunter. He has a simple message for other ­indigenous peoples: “If you don’t adapt, you die.” He knows the traditional culture of his people and speaks their language. He has a PhD in anthropology from the Australian National University. He no longer hunts human heads. He has kept the best of the old ways, and taken the best of what the world has to offer now, to lead his people out of poverty and marginalisation. He knows how his people must adapt to survive.

Recently I was helping my 33-year-old niece to cope with end-stage renal failure and her 11-year-old daughter to attend to an ongoing battle with rheumatic fever; we have the highest rates in the world. Their mother and grandmother, my sister-in-law, is in her 40s. She walks with a limp and has permanent damage to her sight and hearing resulting from assaults by Aboriginal male partners and a Warlpiri man who bashed her in the head with a rock because she had no grog or cigarettes to give him. Not long before that I helped ambulance and police officers to place the body of my aunt in a body bag. She had died of a massive heart attack following a drinking binge. She was one of my favourites. Not long before that I identified the body of my young cousin killed in a car crash caused by ­alcohol abuse. None of these, my female loved ones, had the English skills, confidence or competence to deal with the wider world effectively when crises hit. They all spoke their traditional languages. They were all traditional owners under the Land Rights Act. They knew their Jukurrpa and could name the sacred sites in their country. The old rules of traditional culture simply do not give them, the most marginalised of our communities, the tools they need to deal with contemporary problems and challenges; challenges that the old ones, elders past, couldn’t have imagined.

Massing is correct. We need to adapt to survive and we can do it our way. I have spoken of the need for cultural reform. I have called on Aboriginal people to question long-held beliefs, to challenge that which contributes to violence in our culture and to hold ourselves to account for the part our culture and attitudes play in our communities’ problems. Just as European women have challenged the treatment of women in their cultures to bring about change, I am doing the same in mine.

My message is too much for many people to hear. When I or others relate stories like the ones I’ve told here, we attract labels like “coconut” and “sell out”, and ­obscene, misogynist, violent abuse. If white people do so, of course, the label is “racist”, “assimilationist” and “white supremacist”. Truth can be threatening and offensive. Truth can be too much for some. Aboriginal women and children are Australian citizens and they must be able to make the same choices as other citizens. ­Aboriginal activists campaigned for decades for my people to have the full rights of citizens. Now we have them. We also won the ­responsibilities of citizenship. They can’t be separated. If Australian citizens are in danger of abuse and neglect, they deserve to be protected, not on the basis of their culture but on the basis of their human rights. We cannot sacrifice their lives on the altar of culture.

Thirty per cent of us in the Northern Territory are of indigenous descent. We are determined to hold on to the best of traditional values. We need to let go of the ones that no longer work. My kinsmen, who suffer through these crises, haven’t been taught the best of Western, indeed world, culture to help them cope with the problems whitefellas have brought to us. Many haven’t even been taught to speak, read or write the national language. Our traditional culture simply doesn’t provide all the tools they need for a modern world.

The West has progressed so far because constructive criticism is embraced. Progress cannot be made if long-held beliefs cannot be challenged or if we cannot be honest. My people are intelligent, prag­matic and resilient. We’re not delicate or weak but clever, funny and strong, like our language. And just as our language has adapted to a new world, I have faith our culture can be adapted and improved. And it will still be our culture.

Jacinta Nampijinpa Price is a Warlpiri-Celtic woman from central Australia. She is a fierce campaigner for the rights of Aboriginal women and children against family violence, an elected member on Alice Springs Town Council and a cross-cultural educator. This is an edited extract from the December issue of Meanjin, out on Monday.