The darksiders are that, dark and they can be very depressing. For them nothing is acceptable unless we win in everything and they attack others for "accepting less". There is no balance or understanding beyond that.
Their lack of reason, does not mean that they dont bleed for Richmond.....Many domestic violence cases bear witness to this. The problem is that they have a twisted, dark and narrow view of what love is, at best. Unfortunately some people cannot transcend this and this apply's to the hardcore of our darksider's.
It is impossible to get them to see any balance and they become a negative force , spreading angst and despair for many of us at times. They try to destroy love and respect whilst claiming that they are the one true lover.
Tom Hafey was ruthless when it came to building the club. He famously swam past Tony Jewell to save Royce Hart. But hear him talk and you will find his great strength comes with the way he speaks of people and of what it takes to build a truely collective functioning and potent unit.
I was lucky enough to sit next to him for dinner one night and I recall him saying that his failure to recognise what The Whale meant as a person to the team, probably cost us a flag. He had sent him packing to South Melbourne based solely on his perception of team balance and Whale's football deficiencies. But Whale was such a part of the Tiger heartbeat that it brought the team undone.
The hardcore Darksiders dont know what Humanity and Soul are about....They will descend into racist denigration ( See the Krakouer thread ) and then say we love Maurice Rioli , we are not racists...that is of course, until they decide that you are a DUD and then the honorary role of equals under humanity, is dumped for vitriol, darkness and bigoty.
Dont debate these people or try to change them ...I truely find it sad but as that old writing Desiderata wisely said.....do not mingle or daly with those you find vexatious to the soul.
When we do, we give them credibility and aid them on their path.
Such one dimensional loving as their's ,...... we dont need.