tigerlove said:
Don't know. I never indicted allowing a nude photo to be taken of you in an intimate situation signifies lack of self-respect. Here's a question. Why would you consent to a photo being taken of you and then ask for it to be deleted? Doesn't add up I'm afraid.
Oh, then what is it about this woman that tells you she doesn't respect herself? Smells like a judgment to me.
To me, her actions sound like someone who wasn't immediately comfortable with the photo being taken, but agreed. Then decided that no, she didn't want the photo kept and asked for it's deletion.
And regardless, who cares if she gave consent for the photo to be taken, if she withdraws her consent, those wishes should be respected. Say if you went out, met a woman at a bar who was all over you, you go back to her place, the two of you end up naked in her bed, condoms are opened...then she decides that she doesn't want sex. Whatever consent may have existed prior to this is now irrelevant. She has told you she doesn't want sex. Therefore, if you proceed with sex, it's now illegal.
tigerlove said:
I'm sorry you've misinterpreted my argument. I'm not arguing the consent, of course she is in her rights to complain about not giving consent to distribute the photo. My point is ultimately it's your body and if you are concerned about the potential of your tits being publicly exposed on social media, don't go around flashing them at every opportunity as there is a much higher likelihood it will happen. Maybe stripping is not for you if that's a major concern. Young people often don't consider the potential consequences. That's immaturity. I am not absconding the player and others of responsibility but the media reaction has been ridiculously overplayed. It's not a murder, it's an unidentifiable person's torso with a premiership medal neatly presented. I'm suspecting if it wasn't an AFL premiership player and instead some local competition's medal presented in such a way no-one would be any the wiser. Move on.
And away you go with the victim blaming and judgment based on occupation (and gender too) again. If you really cannot see that a person's occupation does not define who they are, then this is just a waste of time. And not having visited a stripper before, but I'm pretty sure that there would be pretty strict guidelines about not taking pictures of the performers.
As for your last post...if that is seriously going to be your reaction to your own daughters, good grief. Because, as this story has shown, they'll receive plenty of disgusting, distasteful and unwarranted commentary and judgment from every individual who can access their photos. And then, from their own father, they'll get this response "oh well if you hadn't flashed everybody". You know that's akin to saying "if you hadn't worn that short skirt/been drunk/been out late/etc" when a woman is raped.