If it is flat out wrong, then you should find it easy to demonstrate this. Good luck with that. By the way, some on the ground experience here and there doesn't really cut it, we are talking about $4-5 billion after all. We are both as ignorant as each other.
I'm using colourful language to make a point, but the language itself is not untruthful, it is just unpalatable to people like you that want to pretend that taxation isn't theft. It is you that loses the argument by trying to restrict the language of your opponent.
Actually my fundamental argument is that foreign aid requires theft, theft is wrong, foreign aid via theft is wrong. All the other arguments made about the effectiveness of foreign aid just obfuscate this.