I watched both the guys on AFL 360 last night and I felt sorry them.
They are clearly in a tough position mentally, but I think it is as much to do with the lifestyles they lead as anything else.
Successful professional sportspeople and AFL players in particular, lead the most amazing lives you can imagine. Yes there are sacrifices, physical demands, pressure, scrutiny and other drawbacks, but by and large they are very, very comfortable.
Guys like Jack that are 30 odd year old young fathers have lived very easy lives in comparison to most and whilst they are resilient in physical matters they are highly immature, inexperienced and disconnected when it comes to the difficulties in life that most people face.
When you are in that boat being away from your family for 30 odd days becomes a big deal when the reality is, it isn't. In the grand scheme of life, even with a pandemic, it is a very minor inconvenience, very manageable and a tiny piece of hardship compared to the perks of the lifestyle.
I've lived on the periphery of professional sport for almost 20 years now. Putting aside the financial rewards, which are huge, the other fringe benefits alone are remarkable.
I haven't paid for almost any clothes in that time for me and often my family, I've driven new cars for the past 10 years without ever paying a cent in purchase or running costs, never paid a phone bill, my work days involve at least two free meals and usually the opportunity to take meals home at the end of the day and my work days and hours are intense but much shorter than most.
If I don't drop my kids off at school I can pick them up most times, I've had access to all sorts of concerts, sporting events, golf courses, restaurants and other cool stuff all over the world and almost never paid a cent.
I'm not saying that stuff to big note or be a flog, I'm saying that if that is my life as a nobody, imagine what it looks like for a somebody.
The 'tax' I've paid on that has included long stints based permanently overseas, spending almost 8 years working away from home in Australia and overseas for long periods and for four of those years I had children. Deciding to 'settle' and take work in Australia only with a permanent base has still meant three moves to three different states in 10 years. I missed large chunks of time with my kids when they were in there first few years and my wife did a lot of single parenting in those years.
It was hard at times, for her more than me, but at the end of the day it was worth it. Absolutely 100% worth it.
The AFL guys have had all of the amazing stuff, but compared to most sportspeople they haven't paid much 'tax'. Without being flippant and putting aside physical issues, a bad week for Jack Riewoldt last year would have been if it rained on his day off and ruined his game of golf, for which he wouldn't pay membership and would use the very best in equipment, again for free.
I've been in a hub. I've seen my child have to cancel their birthday party because AFL protocols meant they couldn't have guests in a house that I lived in. I've felt the jab each day when they ask when I'm going to be home.
Yes it is hard on some level but when you look at it through the perspective of what is actually hard in life and what rewards you reap compared to the difficulties you face, it really isn't hard at all. If you tried to tell most people in the real world that you were shattered to be heading to Queensland to work for a month without your family they would laugh at you.
I feel sorry for the guys in the hub but I also recognise that their emotion is more to due with their lack of real world experience, than any actual hardship.